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Does your mom love you? Is she still alive? If you answered “yes” to both of those questions, then this blog post is not for you. However if the answer was “no” to either question, please read on!
In a recent study done by Dr. __, it was found that many people who are abandoned by their mothers before they turn 18 years old suffer from mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety. This is because when a person is lacking in parental love during their formative years, it can lead to a lack of self-esteem and self-confidence later in life. So the next time your mother tells you that she loves you.. believe her!
-Not all mothers abandon their children. Some have to for reasons such as job relocation, financial burdens or the need of a better education for themselves and/or other family members.
-It is important that when an individual suffers from mental illness because they were abandoned by a parent before 18 years old, it’s best not to blame themself; this can lead to more feelings of worthlessness which may worsen any existing condition(s).
What are some ways that you’ve found help with your self esteem? I’m sure there are so many! Let us know in the comments below! Best wishes on your journey 🙂 Andrea,Dangerous_Yours Truly Yours, Andrea ,Dangerous, Yours Truly
*The point of this content is to address the question “Why Doesn’t My Mom Love Me” and provide helpful information. The focus should be on how not all mothers abandon their children, why it’s important for individuals who have mental illness due to abandonment before 18 years old not to blame themselves, and some ways that may help improve self esteem.*
I t can be difficult when someone does not believe in you – especially your mother! Sometimes we are told things as a child or young adult like “you’re ugly”, “you’ll never amount to anything”, or more obviously physical abuse such as hitting us with an object. It makes sense that our people don’t want us around them if they think those thoughts about us.
* That doesn’t mean that it’s not hard to believe in ourselves when these things happen, but it does show you what we are up against and why some people can’t do it on their own.* It is important for individuals who have had mental illness due to abandonment before 18 years old not blame themselves – life has a way of happening and there may be many other factors or possible causes they don’t know about.* The hope is that this post helps them realize that everyone goes through tough times and how others with the same problem also find ways out.
* Feeling alone isn’t helpful while trying to improve self esteem because sometimes we need validation from someone else outside our head (like family) or even an activity where they feel like they are accomplishing something.* This is when people find ways of thinking about themselves that don’t focus on the negative things, which can help them get out of a rut.
It’s also important to remember it is not their fault and they should never feel like this means anything bad about them as a person. A lot of times with abandonment trauma, we start feeling guilty because we believe everything our parents told us instead of understanding that they were wrong or saying these things without thinking at all.* The thing here is to try hard not to take responsibility for what happened in the past – if going into therapy helps you do this then by all means go!* In some cases, there may be family members who want nothing more than for someone to feel better and they may be able to help you out with this – so don’t close yourself off from your family because of what has happened in the past.
*We’re not alone when we suffer abandonment trauma, no matter how old or young.* It’s important to remember that there are people who can understand what it feels like and know exactly what to say without making the situation worse by saying something dismissive or upsetting us anymore than we’ve been already hurt.* The key is finding someone who knows about these things but isn’t going through them themselves as well (i.e., a therapist). This way even if their advice doesn’t work for us, at least we have tried our best! *If nothing else works, then trying to find comfort in your significant other can be a great help.
*Some people might say that the best way to get closure is talking about how we feel and what has happened with someone who will listen.* We’ve all had our share of bad experiences, but sometimes it’s hard to know where or when they have affected us – maybe even over many years without realizing! *If you want to try this route I recommend finding someone who has some experience working with abandonment trauma before going into depth about anything deeply personal.* This person should also be non-judgmental and not push their own agenda onto you or make any suggestions that are too extreme for the situation. *Even though these things sound like common sense, sadly there’s no shortage of people who fall into this category.*
The best way to find a good listener is by finding someone in your life that you trust and can be vulnerable with. *This person could come from any part of your life, such as an ex-partner or friend, but it needs to be someone you have had previous conversations about sensitive topics without judgement for them to really open up again.* The more people we use as listeners the better off we are because they will cover different aspects of our lives – not just one thing!* Some might say that when all else fails therapy sessions can also help get some closure on difficult issues.* This option may work if there’s no other person around who seems trustworthy enough to do so otherwise.
Now as for the question, “why doesn’t my mom love me?”* I want to tackle this from two different angles and see if we can make sense of it.* The first one is that you feel misunderstood by your mother. *This could be due to a variety of reasons but some might say it’s because she was raised in an environment where there weren’t any women around her age.*
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In order for us all to move on from feeling misunderstood or hurt by someone close, we need to deconstruct the situation and figure out how it happened. We also need to think about what we can do differently so that these feelings don’t happen again in the future.* *The second answer is more complicated, but I want you to know there’s a way forward for you even if your mom doesn’t love you anymore or never did at all. *It starts with understanding why she might not have loved you and then figuring out what steps are needed from here on out. *In summary: Just because someone doesn’t seem to care about us (whether it’s our mother, father, partner, friend) does not mean they will never change their mind either – nor should this stop us from trying. I hope
